Understanding DCD: A Guide for Parents

What is DCD?
Developmental Coordination Disorder (DCD) is a condition that affects how children move and coordinate their bodies. For children with DCD, their brains need extra time to communicate with their muscles, making some everyday activities – like writing, running, or tying shoes - more challenging. However, it’s important to know that DCD doesn’t define your child’s abilities or potential.

What does DCD feel like for a child?
Imagine trying to balance on a bike while riding over a bumpy road. For children with DCD, even routine tasks can feel like that – unpredictable and tricky to navigate. Their bodies might not always respond the way they want, which can sometimes lead to frustration or feelings of falling behind or not being good enough.

Signs to watch for

Children with DCD may:

  • Struggle with tasks that require fine motor skills, like drawing, handwriting or using scissors.

  • Find gross motor activities like running, catching a ball, or climbing more difficult.

  • Frequently trip, bump into things, or appear clumsy and seem poorly organised.

  • Have trouble with everyday tasks like managing zips, buttons, or tying shoelaces.

While these challenges might signal DCD, they’re not a definitive diagnosis. Always consult a healthcare professional for a proper assessment.

How can parents help?

  • Be patient and supportive: Recognise that tasks may take longer or require more effort for your child. Offer encouragement and celebrate their progress.

  • Break tasks into steps: Simplify activities into manageable parts and give clear, step-by-step instructions. Use checklists or sequence cards to make them easier to follow.

  • Practice and repetition: Provide opportunities to practice skills in a relaxed, pressure-free setting.

  • Use Different Tools: Look for equipment or tools that can make tasks easier, such as pencil grips or Velcro shoes.

  • Work with professionals: Occupational Therapists are known for explaining challenges and providing strategies tailored to meet your child’s needs. They aim to remove barriers so your child’s strengths can shine through.

Strengths of children with DCD
Children with DCD often shine in areas that require creativity, problem-solving, and resilience. They develop unique ways to overcome challenges and persevere when faced with difficulties.

The bigger picture
Having DCD is just one aspect of who your child is – it certainly doesn’t define them. Every child has their own strengths and talents to share with the world. As a parent, your encouragement, patience, and understanding are key to helping your child thrive.

Celebrate their victories, big or small, and remind them (and yourself) that every step forward is a success. With your support, they can achieve amazing things.

 

Emma Puttock
Occupational Therapist

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